For better for worse. 2

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I’m back again. If you’re new here, hiiiiiiiiii plus I’m sending you the warmest of my hugs. If you’re not, how far my guy? **insert guy hug.

I published a story yesterday and I’m here to share the second part with you. I really hope you like it, share your thoughts, all that stuff. It’s not long enough to be a part two but it is what it is I guess.

Enjoy✨

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For better, for worse. Part 2

What couldn’t I possibly understand? Everything seemed clear to me. Dad messed up, yes, he did. It’s alright if it happens just once, but repeatedly? No. It’s not even okay at all. It really isn’t.

“What is there that I don’t understand?” I asked her. I wanted answers. I wanted it to be clear to me. I needed a solid answer. She sighed, looked at me again and said “where would I have started from if I had left? I didn’t want to be part of those people who left their husbands house and remarried.” She paused . “I do not want to belong there. What would people say? “ she continued. “I would have been alone with you two.” In that moment, I felt numb. I didn’t want to continue the discussion because I knew it’d end up in an argument. We stayed quiet for a long time. My head was spinning because I was thinking about a lot. I hated the fact that all she felt was shame, when she shouldn’t be the one feeling shame. The society is so messed up. “We made vows at the altar . We are married. You can’t just walk out of a marriage like that.” “What would people say?” She said yet again. My head was still spinning. What vows ? He already broke that. “I don’t think the for better for worse means when he’s cheating on you, or when he doesn’t regard your feelings mother.” “He has no single respect for you. You pay all the bills and you can’t just leave? That’s just plain suffering .” “Fade…” she sighed .

“It doesn’t make any sense to me ma. It doesn’t.“

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What are your thoughts?? As for me sha, I believe Jesus will intervene 😭. I’d be sharing my thoughts tomorrow. Until then, let me know yours.

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11 Comments

  1. Hi, well what I can actually see from my own point of view is that;
    1. Probably Fade’s mum knew what she went through before she got to marry the man.
    2. Probably she just wants to be different, not wanting to join the clique of other single women who just left their homes and were not able to fix their homes.
    3. She maybe doesn’t want side talks or gossips, which she knows will eventually be a problem to the kids. They’ll be hurt emotionally. The fact that they do not have a father will affect them. They may not see it at first….but as time goes on, they’ll feel it.

    Just from my own point of view🤗 I don’t know if it makes sense 😂

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    1. I get your points honestly. Number 2 is honestly just shame. It’s not her responsibility to fix the home. It’s the husband’s.
      But i blame the society anyway

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      1. To fix the home is for them both, if the husband decides not to fix it, the woman can take a step. When the woman takes a step, it then depends on the husband…
        Some husbands can just be so hard hearted.
        We can blame it on the society, true.

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  2. 1. The woman shouldn’t be too aggressive, she should try not to behave or act harshly on the issue. The keyword here is “Patience”
    When she’s patient, and then she still behaves as lovely as before she found out about the incident of her husband cheating, an husband in his right mind, will have this guilty conscience and apologize

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